How often do you find yourself in a situation with other people and feel you don’t quite belong?
If it’s often, please watch this week’s Awaken TV episode. I think it could help you.
If the feeling ‘I don’t belong’ makes you pull back from sharing your truth, expressing your brilliance, receiving support from those around you, then definitely watch this.
Being able to access a deep sense that you belong is an important part of your spiritual awakening journey, as well as your ability to share the gifts you came here to share.
When you don’t feel completely safe with a group, or don’t feel like you measure up to the other members in the group, what do you do?
First, you must to see the addictive cycle of the thought ‘I don’t belong,’ and see what’s underneath it. I’ll show you how to work with this and other critical steps in this video
The truth is you DO belong.
But it HURTS when you contract against this truth.
It’s time to consistently feel that you belong – in any situation.
The feeling of belonging has very little to do with the group that is making you feel like you’re on the outside. True belonging is inside of you.
Watch the video now.
Much love,
Rachael Jayne
Totally can relate to this. Its been going on for too long for me in most areas actually.
Thank you for addressing it. I take full responsibility for working on it to belong.
That’s great awareness Maria. Be sure to report back to me what you find.
OMG that was just what I needed right now!! This is my story that I have very much been replaying a LOT lately…. Thank you for this insight!
It’s so much more common than I previously thought. Think about what group you will use this practice with and let me know.
This is me
When do you find this happening the most, what group?
LOL… I just thought I was an alien here to observe.
I think we all can feel this way sometimes!
Thanks Rachael Jayne….this was a really good one. It is something I’ve dealt with for years. I will do the ah..ah..ah…ah and let go of it. It is getting better.
That’s good Kay. Noticing and catching yourself will go a long way towards disarming the pattern. Please let me know how it goes.
Absolutely awesome….i am no longer on the cult I walked out of over 20 years ago. Neither am I still a domestic violence victim. I’m an ordinary person who does the same things and has the same emotions as everyone else.
You do indeed belong, Liz. Much love.
It was interesting what you say. A community I wanted to say with where i wished to stay for the rest of my life I left because I didnot feel safe because i would say is my belief of what is being truthful and pure and so I think this was ingrained inb me from a child and now mature years i found the truth about my parents and family and it did hurt and and learnt so much about my self and people which hurt but am over and shows I was sincere and true to myself and others but i found that others where not sincere or true to me or them selves and live in a false world. I dont think I belong because of the people i meet . There are people like my self. Are we fake it and be like others just to belong
Wow. Played this back 3 times because my mind shut down just listening to it. Ya think maybe this applies to me? Lol. All kinds of thoughts running through my head. I’ll be working on this one for sure! Thanks once again for your insight and instruction. Mwah!
That’s a good catch, Cherie. Keep up the awareness in this area.
thank you Rachael Jayne, Quite a Lovely message.. I moved to/live in a small town that I clarify, when asked, I am “not from here.”
I feel like “they” are the aliens. My son has expressed this too. His started in his early years. Energetically, it has a different vibration and feels tight. Living in the woods, has allowed us to breathe easier. I have already applied your technique..to think of that one person that I feel like I connect with….and feel into that….Those single individuals that I have connected with….are amazing, deep, spiritually aware, fun…and definitely “not from here.” I am going to continue to apply this and amplify it…because I know that I can change my vibratory field of attraction, etc…and influence my son’s in the same positive way…
It sounds like you have a good start by connecting inside with the person that you do connect with. Continue to amplify that feeling and see how long you can hold on to it.
I ve allways felt it, in 90 percent of places. Now i’m older i don t want to hide myself anymore and express finally my full true me. But since i m so much more conscious the sense of not belonging seems to be worse. The thing is that i dont belong to the mass and they feel it too. it is about different vibrations. so, when i don t fit in, its not about that people don’t like me, not at all, but its the different frequency that doesnt resonate with most people.
The only group i felt completely comfortable and happy was with light workers. but of course i m not all the time with them. What to do when you know you see /feel the world from a different vibration ? how i can feel i belong even though i m so very different from the inside then most?
thanks for the video Rachel. what if you feel your whole life that you don”t belong in 90 % of the groups cause i ‘m on a different frequency then most people. They sense it , without being aware of the why’ , people feel that i dont share their mutual vibration. thats rather painfull and lonely sometimes cause i do understand them, but vv rarely.
The only place where I ever felt a big sense of belonging was recently with a group of lightworkers. wow, what an experience was that. My question is: How can i stay in my own vibration and yet feel that sense of belonging with other groups? Because its the time i finally be true to myself and do something with my gifts.
Interesting…my therapist worked on this with me this past week. Some of the things she said was that we are going to cancel, delete these beliefs and feelings, dismantle, recreate belonging and feeling safe and we sent all of the past beliefs, feelings and the lies that I told myself into the light. Perhaps that is what some others can do as well with this tip. :);)
Thank you for sharing your experience, Augustine.
Obviously I needed to hear this today. I don’t feel this as much as I used to, but it’s still there. I’m not sure which need it is linked with – perhaps all 4! So, taking responsibility for it! Thanks Rachael-Jayne
Good, Leanne. Let me know how it’s working for you!
Thank you so much for this message of belonging. Like lot of other people, I have been playing this message of not belonging for so long. I have also been feeling inferior around certain people and when I am around them, I doubt myself in my actions, words…constantly self-conscious of my words. Do you have any advice as to what causes me to feel this way around certain people?
Do you think that feeling that way, being “triggered” by certain people, could be a form or expression of “I don’t belong?”